Couples EMDR Intensive for Repeating Patterns

Yes.

As part of this pathway, I work with each partner individually during the EMDR Intensive phase, and then bring this into the couples sessions.

This is held within a systemic approach, as a Clinical Family Therapist - where each person is understood in the context of the relationship, rather than in isolation.

Individual EMDR sessions are confidential.

At the same time, this work is grounded in transparency within the relationship. This means I do not hold secrets that would impact the relationship.

We would speak together about what feels appropriate to bring into the couples space, so that both partners can remain informed and engaged in the process, without needing to share every detail of what was explored individually.

Not necessarily.

The focus is not on sharing everything that has been discussed, but on bringing forward what is helpful for the relationship.

This is something we approach thoughtfully, with care for both partners, and with an emphasis on honesty, respect and relational integrity.

In situations where there has been a betrayal, this approach allows space to work with the experiences of both partners.

This includes supporting the person who has been hurt, as well as understanding what may sit underneath the actions of the person who has stepped outside of the relationship.

This work is held with care and clarity, including a shared understanding that transparency is important in rebuilding trust.

During the EMDR Intensive phase, I see one partner at a time.

This allows space for each person to focus on their own work, while the other partner can support them through their process, as well as tend to themselves, the home, or children.

There is an integration period after both partners have completed their individual work before moving into the couples sessions. This may be a week, or longer if needed, allowing space for the work to settle before beginning the relational phase.

Couples sessions then follow, supporting integration within the relationship.

Yes, this is important.

Where possible, I recommend clearing your calendar during the intensive phases.

It can also be helpful to allow some space following the individual work before beginning couples sessions, so that each partner has time to rest and integrate.

This supports a more grounded and connected experience when coming back together for the relationship work.

Yes, and it is helpful to plan ahead.

During individual sessions, one partner may be in session while the other is available to support children or family needs.

Where there are challenges within the relationship, this can often impact parenting and the wider family system.

By working in this way, changes between you can begin to support a greater sense of steadiness, connection and presence - not only within the relationship, but also in how you are able to be with your children and as a family.

This work is different from weekly or fortnightly therapy.

The EMDR Intensive process is focused on working with the experiences that sit underneath current patterns — supporting the processing of what may feel stuck, so that change can begin to unfold more naturally within the relationship.

For most couples, ongoing therapy is not required in the same way following this work. The intention is to create meaningful shifts that can continue beyond the sessions themselves.

If further individual or relational work is needed at a later stage, this can be discussed together. Where one partner is wanting to return for additional support, this would be approached openly and with consideration for the relationship.

At times, time-limited follow-up sessions may be offered, or a return to the intensive model may be considered where further focused work would be beneficial.

Booking a Couples EMDR Intensive involves reserving dedicated time across multiple sessions. This time is held exclusively for you. To support a clear and contained process, the following policy applies.

Payment

A non-refundable deposit of $1,000, $1250 or $1500 (program dependent) is required to secure your program dates.

The remaining balance is due 7 days prior to the first assessment session.

Rescheduling

You may reschedule your program once, ideally with 14 days’ notice, without additional fees (subject to availability).

If less notice is given, I will always do my best to accommodate changes where possible.

In the case of unexpected or significant circumstances, I will approach this with care and offer flexibility where appropriate. This flexibility is intended for genuine situations and is not ongoing.

Further changes may require a new booking and deposit.

Cancellations

The deposit is non-refundable and is retained in all cases.

If cancellation occurs before the remaining balance is due (more than 7 days prior to commencement), no further fees are payable.

If cancellation occurs after the remaining balance has been paid (within 7 days of commencement), I will approach this with care and consider what is appropriate. This may include retaining part of the program fee, depending on the timing and circumstances, or offering rescheduling where possible.

Please note

Couples EMDR Intensives involve significant preparation and dedicated time. Late changes impact the ability to offer this work to others.

Thank you for your understanding.

In the unlikely event that I need to reschedule a session, I will provide as much notice as possible and offer an alternative time as close as possible to your original booking.

Couples EMDR Intensive are structured pieces of work, and continuity is important. For this reason, sessions are rescheduled rather than refunded.

If a suitable time cannot be found within the same week, we will work together to find the earliest appropriate alternative to maintain the flow of your process.

Yes. If you are completing an integrated pathway that includes individual EMDR Intensive Therapy for each partner followed by Couples Intensive Therapy, payments can be made in stages.

A non-refundable reservation deposit is required to secure the appointments for each intensive therapy pathway booked.

The remaining balance for each pathway is due one week before the first assessment session for that phase of therapy. For example:

• Partner 1 EMDR Intensive Therapy: balance due one week before their assessment session.

• Partner 2 EMDR Intensive Therapy: balance due one week before their assessment session.

• Couples Intensive Therapy: balance due one week before the first couples session.

This staged approach allows you to spread the investment over time while ensuring your dedicated therapy appointments remain reserved.